Illusions of Love in a Dangerous Time
We've all heard the phrase - or variants of it before: ‘best friends forever.’ But when placed under a lens for deeper observation, how much grain in this statement [silo] can be accredited as actually truth? It so quickly rolls off the tip of the tongue and offers a sudden consoling reassurance of sorts in situations of tension or unease.
I find it all too ironic that a phrase as such can so easily slip through the same lips that in one moment bless but in a flash can purse themselves in utter disgust and contempt at the mere mention of set (symbol of hatred). We live a lie - or rather an ideal, that many are too weak to stand by. We say things like this or blurt them out without any emotional backing or commitment to follow through with on our side of the bargaining bin. Friendships are 100/100 - both sides being all give and give. If a friendship fails, you cannot freely excuse yourself on the other's behalf. We are all just as responsible for fall-ins (ex: love) as well as fallouts. How often do we reflect on our relationships? The caliced question forms: Who are my real friends? Who in my life is equally committed to me and my well-being as I am towards them?
Everyone wants to be loved because love takes effort. Aside from effort, love cannot exist. Perhaps that is why so many relationships hit the bottom of the urinal like washed out piss. We cheapen the meaning of love and true friendships by placing emphasis on the wrong area: What can we get out of them? This is so far from the truth of what a true relationship is - what love is.
Love is sacrifice:
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" (John 3:16 NIV).
I am also sure we’ve all heard this quote at some point, but take some time to consider what love really is. Who in your life shows this kind of care towards you - and do you show it in return? Pause, find peace, find restoration, and put your mind at ease. Dwell on these things and seek answers to your silent questions.
I find it all too ironic that a phrase as such can so easily slip through the same lips that in one moment bless but in a flash can purse themselves in utter disgust and contempt at the mere mention of set (symbol of hatred). We live a lie - or rather an ideal, that many are too weak to stand by. We say things like this or blurt them out without any emotional backing or commitment to follow through with on our side of the bargaining bin. Friendships are 100/100 - both sides being all give and give. If a friendship fails, you cannot freely excuse yourself on the other's behalf. We are all just as responsible for fall-ins (ex: love) as well as fallouts. How often do we reflect on our relationships? The caliced question forms: Who are my real friends? Who in my life is equally committed to me and my well-being as I am towards them?
Everyone wants to be loved because love takes effort. Aside from effort, love cannot exist. Perhaps that is why so many relationships hit the bottom of the urinal like washed out piss. We cheapen the meaning of love and true friendships by placing emphasis on the wrong area: What can we get out of them? This is so far from the truth of what a true relationship is - what love is.
Love is sacrifice:
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" (John 3:16 NIV).
I am also sure we’ve all heard this quote at some point, but take some time to consider what love really is. Who in your life shows this kind of care towards you - and do you show it in return? Pause, find peace, find restoration, and put your mind at ease. Dwell on these things and seek answers to your silent questions.

